One routine can be a useful starting point When families raise several concerns, it can be tempting to offer several strategies. But where do they start? Ask: “Which part of the day would you most like to feel easier?” Explore that routine together - what happens before the difficult moment, what the child might be finding hard and what already helps. Agree on one manageable change, then check in and adjust. What questions help you understand a family’s routines beyond what you see in the clinic?